Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Joshua and the Endo-What?

Our latest physician visit was to an Endocrinologist.

Can I be honest?

I have no idea what an Endocrinologist does. I've heard some mutter about  growth hormone shots and pituitary glands. Other than that, I'm clueless.

I knew we were referred there because Joshua wasn't growing and maybe the study of endocrines will be of some help. Not sure how because last September, one of the cardiologists told us not to ever give him growth hormones because his heart would have to work harder and why would we want that?

First up, weigh and measure. Same 36 pounds. Ugh!

Secondly, meet with the resident to answer all those pesky questions.

Most of which I answer in a monotone voice: "Unknown." Because it hurts my heart that I don't know about gestation, or birth, or milestones of my child. Joshua walks and talks just fine now. That's where I'm at.

Then the really pesky questions begin. Who lives in the home, how many biological, how many adopted, etc. Finally, she says, "Other than normal sibling squabbles, do your kids get along?"

Stop.

"Why are you asking me that?" Mama Bear emerges. Now maybe I don't know what an Endocrinologist is but I'm certain that whether my kids get along or not has nothing to do with why Joshua isn't growing.

Have you ever seen a resident squirm? I know the poor thing is trying to do her job. "Because sometimes family situations play into the health of our patients."

Mama Bear with a blank stare. Silent pause.

"Look, after 10 years of foster care and six adoptions, those are the kids that are in my home. My kids get along just fine."

Oh, good grief. 
Know what these are?
Stay tuned for Part 2 of Endocrinology.
(The study of the endocrine system, BTW.)

Monday, March 19, 2012

Practicing the Leaving

 8,130 days so far. 
22 years and some change.
Departure is becoming inevitable.
Jobs are hunted.
 Plans are laid.
Emotions are confused.
Every weekend, we practice the leaving.
As she heads back to school.
Only 8 weeks to go.
Four years of college under her belt.
Two degrees.
Ready for the next big step.
Then life will be different.
In a good yet melancholy sort of way.
Life will never be the same.
Nor would either of us want it to be.

You think birth/adoption is hard?
Where is the road map?
Life launching is not for the faint of heart.

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Red Letter Day

My traveling pack. 
 Lately, who gets out and about is an ever changing variation.
  Micah, show me the money!
 Oh, there you are sweet boy.
 Magic moment of the day!
The Children's Museum offered face/hand painting. You realize the depth of your multi-racial-cultural family when your three  year old asks for a turtle in Mandarin. I admit, I had a proud moment.
 Joshua: "Mom, take-ah my picture."
 Getting these two to stand still is near impossible.
 Mom, when I grow up.....
(That deserves its own post)
 Four in one frame. I counted myself blessed for exactly one nanosecond.
Big girls love to pretend too.
It is how we learn.

I LOVE that my kids play together and have a good time.
We are surely getting our money's worth out of our family pass.

Pictures of the Week 3/11-3/17

Pictures of people this week.I broke my own rule. Thursday is the first picture that I didn't take myself. But so far all photos have been taken on the day they are published.
  Glued
71 / 365
To the tube.
  Beautiful
72 / 365
The definition of beauty. Inside and out.
 Mr. Snowman
73 / 365
The kids had fun finding these all over town.
 Yellow Shirts
74 / 365
I was happy that Erik picked out matching shirts today. 
Much easier to keep track of three yellow bodies streaking in all directions.
 B-Town Book Signing
75 / 365
We stood in line for 90 minutes to have our books
 signed by the most gracious PW.
  Birthday Party Pizazz
76 / 365
Just got home from a fun birthday party at the pool. 
You could write a story about this picture if you knew the characters...
 
Bikes Are Out
77 / 365
Snow receding in the background but the rule is: 
bikes can come out when they can get from the 
shed to the driveway without touching snow!

Saturday, March 17, 2012

Thursday's Bonding Adventure

Some of us went down to Boston for a grand adventure.
After debating whether to follow 
the GPS or the Google map directions,
 we opted for the GPS.
Heading into Boston, the rain was light and the bridges were high.
When you see this bridge, you know you're close.
Ms. GPS took us through the Callahan tunnel. My carmates were freakin' out and thinking about roof panels falling on us. I'll take a tunnel over a bridge any day.
We were on a mission to see this woman.
Or so I thought.
They tore our tickets at the door. Uh, I had to hold on to this one because we got separated. There were two Brooklines in the GPS and I sorta picked the wrong one. We finally wound our way back from a tour of Dorchester to the real Harvard Street where Erika and I jumped out of the car and sprinted down the sidewalk before they gave our tickets away. We panted and trotted and made it by 5:56.  Meanwhile, Lindsey went in search of a parking space. In downtown Boston. During 5:00 traffic. She parked. She sprinted. She made it. I'm happy to say.
After a half hour talk, we followed the crowd across the street to the book signing where we promptly got in line, giving thanks we were late in the first place. Last in, first out. We were able to be inside the store where it was a lot warmer.
Me and my adventurous peeps. 
I can't think of two better friends to attend my first book signing with.
Ree Drummond is extremely personable. 
Meaning the line moved very s..l..o..w..l..y.
Okay. Erika had the camera. Because she was super bored. My 12 year old doesn't have a cell phone to text with or an ipod to keep her busy like everyone else in line.
I discovered that Erika has an unusual foot fetish.
She likes to take pictures of people shoes.
She told me she was taking pictures of flats here.
Taking a break from the shoes....
I'm not sure what she didn't take a picture of.
Our Farmer, Self Sneaker Portrait, Cool Boots.
Taking a picture of one's own trick thumb is always entertaining.
Back to the flats.
Did you know I've been on a book fast? 
I haven't bought a book in over two months.
I know Amazon has dropped in sales.
Because of me.
Standing in a super duper bookstore for two hours surrounded by every book ever written was overwhelming. Kind of like eating too much chocolate. After I dumped my $30 big ones for a book to sign, I decided I might be able to go another two months. Maybe.
After about two hours, we arrived at the head of the line.  I utterly embarrassed myself by introducing my homeschooled, photography degreed, cow degreed daughter saying that she was too shy to send her resume. Goodness, that woman is gracious. After signing for two hours, she asked us where we were from and told Lindsey good luck.

On the way to the car, I was reliving the brief encounter and Lindsey quietly murmurs, "I did send her my resume, awhile ago." Me. Shrinking. I am a duh.
We found the car, loaded up, and drove along the Charles River on our way out of town. The lights and skyline were beautiful.
Somewhere along the way, we found a Wendy's because I had free frosty coupons. Second duh of the evening occurred. I thought we went to Boston to see Ree Drummond and buy her new book. My daughter, who found out about the event, got the tickets, and drove us to Boston informed me that we were bonding. 

I am a super duh.
Thank you, Erika, for the fun pictures. 
Thank you, Lindsey, for a wonderful bonding experience. 
With Extra Love and Kisses on Top,
  Your Triple Duh Momma.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Wednesday's Ambitions

I was feeling particularly ambitious. Here's the list:
  •  8:30 am Leave with 5 kids to drive 1 1/2 hours to Portland.
  • 10:00am Joshua's appointment with the Endocrinologist.
  • Drop Food Diary off at the GI doctor.
  • Walk next door to the Cardiologist and ask 4 questions.
  • Find the Developmental Doctor's office, drop off paperwork.
  • Find the Orthopedist's office and drop off CD, make an appointment.
After using the power of Google maps, I had a plan and off we went.

Here's how it really went:

We left at 8:50 am. I white knuckled it all the way hoping we missed the school buses. When you homeschool, it is annoying to be delayed by school buses when you are trying to get somewhere on time. Even if you left late,  because you homeschool, and you don't regularly get your kids dressed and out of the house.
There was an on street parking space waiting for us because Big Red doesn't even pretend to fit into a parking garage. We walked in the door at 9:59 am. Miracles never cease. I left 4 of the kids in the small waiting room and took Joshua into the abyss of yet another doctor's office. 

This appointment deserves a post of it's own. Letmetellya!!!

An hour in I realized I better check on the status of the waiting room. The receptionist took pity and put on a movie. They were glued. All good.

We finally got out of there with stickers, coloring books, and toys. 

Up to the third floor to drop of the food diary. Success. 

Went next door to the Cardiologist's office. They know who we are! I am so impressed. I LOVE this office. Asked my questions and got some answers. Success.

Back to the second floor to visit the lab. There was strategic taking of turns pushing all these elevator buttons.
 We got a great technician named Ben. Makes all the difference!
 More blood. Poor Joshua. 
"Pin Cushion" might as well be his middle name. 

 Lots of blood. Looking for answers.
 Meanwhile in yet another waiting room....
 the rest of the tribe was quietly waiting.
  Just enough before Joshua's vein shut down. Success.
 Joshua got a Sylvester bandaid and wanted a picture of the clock.
We took the elevator down to the first floor, 
all washed our hands,
 and finally left the building at 12:15 pm.
Drove a few miles and found 1577 Congress. Dropped of the paperwork and begged for an appointment sooner than 6-12 months. She wrote a note probably to appease me. We'll see.
Found the orthopedist office. Went in to drop off Joshua's back x-ray and make an appointment only to find out that one had already been scheduled for April? Not sure who they talked to?

Feeling utterly proud of myself for making the rounds, we went back into town for the big reward! 

What we've been waiting for all day. 

The Children's Museum. I have some fun pictures to post later.