Saturday, June 30, 2012

Pictures of the Week 6/24-6/30

Summertime is an opportunity for lessons in choosing what's best for our family as there are so many fun things to participate in. This week brought a trip to the East, a leaving, a birthday, and an airshow. I had some help with the photography this week.
  Yum Yum Summertime
176 / 365
Eat little man. What ever you want. Eat some more!
  Nature Provides
177 / 365
My daughter offered me a roadside bouquet of wildflowers.
 Creation
178 / 365
Only God could create the beauty we find outside our door.
  Bananas Are A Food Group
179 / 365
She would eat bananas all day if she could.
  New Addition
180 / 365
Last day of fourteen brought a new bunny named Topaz. 
She is a Thrianta and a beautiful orange-red.
  Older
181 / 365
Erik made his own cake this year. What a great job. 
Blue Angels
182 / 365
Bob, Erik, and Grandpa went to the airshow today.
 I'm told these Blue Angels are only 18 inches apart.

Strawberry Pickin'

The inevitable came as we piled out of a full van.

"Is this a field trip? she asks."

"Yep." 

I'm learning to keep it short.
Surveying  our assigned territory.
Ripe and ready.
Endless rows of summer.
She smiles.
The perfect one?
Or this?
Another first experience. Ah, the joy. 
Don't ask Mama whose is best, just take a bite.
Be proud of your work.
In her glory.
She was everyone's helper.
Go for it girly.
"Look what I found."
We spread out and conquered.
 
Gone the next morning.
Not sure who was more scary, the owl or a couple of toddlers.
On the way home, God gave us a reason to praise him 
with a glorious sunset.
What a great night.
Food, fun, and beauty.




Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Pictures of the Week 6/17-6/23

We had a little foray to the East and enjoyed our time away...from home and cell phones and internet. Highly recommended every once in awhile.
  What's Outside Your Window
169 / 365
Just feet from the back door, a visitor was discovered feasting on last night's refuse. 
Somebody didn't take the trash all the way to the shed.
  When You Are Two...
170 / 365
Quiet is amazing.
  Determination
171 / 365
Hershey Track is an outstanding program.
  Strawberry Fields Forever
172 / 365
We went picking on a ridge at sunset.
  Bathing Beauties
173 / 365
No words.
Out for a stroll
174 / 365
As far East as you can go in the US of A.
Seaweed Monster
175 / 365
The most impressive piece of seaweed I have ever seen.

Thursday, June 21, 2012

Whose RAD Is It Anyway?

Over the last couple of months, I've spent some time with a few psychologists doing basic routine assessments for a few of my kids. 

Not sure if I reported it here or on FB, (too lazy to go back and look it up) but one meeting included me having a serious discussion on the developmental aspects of my Chinese adoptee with only one loopy dangley earring. The other ear: naked. Call me a crazy homeschooling mother of many, why don't you?

The other psychologist? She was not impressed with our less than "typical" lifestyle with under the breath comments like, "That's a passel of kids. You certainly have your hands full" and "So your child doesn't have any friends because you never socialize with other kids" after I relayed the multitude of activities we participate in on a weekly basis. Swallow hard, carry on.

When your kids come to you at 8 years, or 5 years, or 5 weeks old for that matter, a lot has happened in their lives. More than we will ever know and it is advantageous to gather as much information in every possible way. 

Being informed helps us

understand the past,
deal with the present,
plan for the future.

As I was talking to the psychologist about my child, she had the nerve to suggest that during a particularly prickly stage with my child, the bonding and attachment was compromised. Not the child's. Mine. Ouch. I took that nugget home to think about with my tail between my legs.

Yes, she actually said I have attachment issues. 

Time for: (Insert deep announcer's voice) 

Confessions of an Adoptive Mom:

I love my children. I really do.

Yet sometimes, there is one that is very hard to like.

All that history that I wasn't part of?

It gets in the way.

Of my understanding. It disrupts my compassion. 

And the truth of it all?

God has given me a vehicle for growth. 

A way to learn more about how Jesus loved the unlovable.

And He did exactly that in the best possible way.



Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Pictures of the Week 6/10-6/16

Pictures dominated by graduation this week. 
And that's okay! 
 Reflections
162 / 365
The Baccalaureate was a time to reflect on the end of high school and the beginning of the next part of life. I inadvertently caught myself in the cool dude shades.
  Hide 'N Seek
163 / 365
Rosy and Micah thought they were so clever to hide behind the door. 
Just imagine the giggles....
 Ready To Run
164 / 365
In the middle of the track meet, 
they have a fun run for the little kids.
 Experiment
165 / 365
A pine needle floating in air caught on a spider's string.
  Twelve
166 / 365
Our first public school graduation. 
Here's to bling on the rear view mirror!
 
In The Garden
167 / 365
The best helper ever!
Speaking at Graduation
168 / 365
My son gave the Invocation at his public high school graduation.
He did a great job.

Sunday, June 17, 2012

My Dad...

Our church put a video together for Father's Day. One thing about having a large family is that we are usually well represented in just about everything at our church. I can't wait to see the slideshow today. Or I may be too busy watching my husband's face as he watches. Then again, I may be looking at my Dad, who is sure to get emotional as his three kids attend church with him on Father's Day 2012.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

Pictures of the Week 6/3-6/9

Not the greatest pictures this week. In fact I even forgot my camera at the Senior Banquet. Golden rule of photography: Take thy camera everywhere!
 Cooperation
155 / 365
Magic moments like these leave me feeling very blessed. 
All engaged, playing happily with each other. 
I love my kids.
 Warrior Kitty
156 / 365
You name it, she's caught it.
  Track Meet
157 / 365
During the girls' track meet, they had a fun run for the little kids.
 Trey and Micah loved getting a ribbon after their run.
  Senior Night at Church
158 / 365
They are so CUTE!
 Lunch
159 / 365
I am trying to like quinoa. 
Sweet potatoes and spinach on top made for an interesting lunch.
  Senior Banquet
160 / 365
Shame on me. I forgot my camera.
Shopping Buddy
161 / 365
In which a few hours turned into an all day affair replete with keys locked in the car with ice cream and onion rings as consolation. Always an adventure!